My most current photo taken March 2022. I used to be a good-looking Dude(photo below), but not anymore. But I am still very proud of my aging body.
With
the passing of my youngest son, David E last March 17, I am now living
alone. Moreover, my youngest daughter who currently resides near me ( 30
minutes driving time or less) was recently appointed as Associate
Director for Communications, Bureau of Census, Department of Commerce.
She will be moving to the Washington DC area soon. Here's Ditas message
today from her FB page.
"25 years…And so the next chapter of my life begins. I will miss Sacramento and the amazing supportive community that has really embraced Carenna and I after Nick’s passing. My retirement lasted really about a month lol, but I have enjoyed the last 10 months consulting, traveling and teaching a lot of meditation and yoga. Carenna and I will be back in Sacramento for a few weeks in June to officially pack up the house. Hoping to see some of you before we leave for our new adventure".
My
two oldest children are about two to three hours driving and have their
own lives. Luckily I have two friendly neighbors who promise that if I
need anything, they are there for me any time. My nearest relative is
Macrine's neice- Yuka Maeda Chellan and my oldest grandson, Ian King. I
could always call them in case of emergency.
I enjoyed staying in this house. I love both my indoor and outdoor plants. All my life's memorabilia are here such as paintings, photos, antique furniture, books and collectables are all in this house. I will not be able to bring these to the apartment space in an Independent /assisted living facility.
Since I did not renewed my driver's last year, I am dependent on ordering my groceries and food on line. I only need a driver to doctor's appointment, hair cut and pedicure needs. I could call the Para transit service for Seniors in our area, Uber or Lyft. However, my grandson who lives in the area promised that If I need a haircut again, he could drive me to the barber on his day off.
It is not fun living alone. My mind is still active (
see the attached article on the Brain of an Elderly Person), but my
body has aches and pains because of the aging process. Below is an
article I received recently for your reading pleasure.
"THE BRAIN OF AN ELDERLY PERSON. The director of the George Washington University College of Medicine argues that the brain of an elderly person is much more plastic than is commonly believed. At this age, the interaction of the right and left hemispheres of the brain becomes harmonious, which expands our creative possibilities. That is why among people over 60 you can find many personalities who have just started their creative activities.
Of course, the brain is no longer as fast as it was in youth. However, it wins in flexibility. That is why, with age, we are more likely to make the right decisions and are less exposed to negative emotions. The peak of human intellectual activity occurs at about 70 years old, when the brain begins to work at full strength. Over time, the amount of myelin in the brain increases, a substance that facilitates the rapid passage of signals between neurons. Due to this, intellectual abilities are increased by 300% compared to the average.
And the peak of active production of this substance falls on 60-80 years of age. Also interesting is the fact that after 60 years, a person can use 2 hemispheres at the same time. This allows you to solve much more complex problems. Professor Monchi Uri from the University of Montreal believes that the brain of an elderly person chooses the least energy-intensive path, cutting unnecessary and leaving only the right options for solving the problem.
A study was conducted in which different age groups took part. Young people were confused a lot when passing the tests, while those over 60 made the right decisions. Now let's look at the features of the brain at the age of 60-80. They are really rosy".
FEATURES OF THE BRAIN OF AN ELDERLY PERSON.
1. The neurons of the brain do not die off, as everyone around them says. Connections between them simply disappear if a person does not engage in mental work.
2. Absent-mindedness and forgetfulness appear due to an overabundance of information. Therefore, you do not need to focus your whole life on unnecessary trifles.
3. Beginning at the age of 60, a person, when making decisions, uses not one hemisphere at the same time, like young people, but both.
4. Conclusion: if a person leads a healthy lifestyle, moves, has a feasible physical activity and has full mental activity, intellectual abilities DO NOT decrease with age, but only GROW, reaching a peak by the age of 80-90 years. So don't be afraid of old age. Strive to develop intellectually. Learn new crafts, make music, learn to play musical instruments, paint pictures! Dance! Take an interest in life, meet and communicate with friends, make plans for the future, travel as best you can. Don't forget to go to shops, cafes, concerts. Do not lock yourself alone - it is destructive for any person. Live with the thought: all the good things are still ahead of me!
Information! A large study in the United States found that:
The most productive age of a person is from 60 to 70 years;
* SOURCE: New England Journal of Medicine *. Pass on this information to your family and friends aged 60, 70 and 80 so that they will be proud of their age “
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