Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands
View of Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands-Click on photo to link to Chateau Du Mer

WELCOME TO MY SITE AND HAVE A GOOD DAY

If this is your first time in this site, welcome. It has been my dream that my province, Marinduque, Philippines becomes a world tourist destination not only during Easter Week but also whole year round. You can help me achieve my dream by telling your friends about this site. The photo above is your own private beach at The Chateau Du Mer Beach Resort. The sand is not as white as Boracay, but it is only a few steps from your front yard and away from the mayhem and crowds of Boracay. I have posted some of my favorite Filipino and American dishes and recipes on this site also. Some of the photos and videos on this site, I do not own. However, I have no intention on infringement of your copyrights. Cheers!

Friday, February 13, 2026

Today is Friday, the 13th. Is it Your Lucky Day?

Why is Friday the 13th unlucky? Here's a post on the cultural origins of this enduring superstition all over world.   

Why Is Friday the 13th Unlucky?
The Cultural Origins of an Enduring Superstition

Across cultures and centuries, few dates have carried as much unease as Friday the 13th. For some, it is just another day on the calendar. For others, it is a day to postpone travel, avoid major decisions, or simply knock on wood a little more often. How did this particular combination of a weekday and a number earn such a dark reputation—and why does it still linger in a modern, science-driven world?

The Fear of Thirteen

Long before Friday entered the picture, the number 13 had a troubled reputation. Ancient cultures often viewed twelve as a symbol of completeness and order: twelve months in a year, twelve zodiac signs, twelve gods of Olympus, twelve tribes, twelve apostles. Thirteen, coming just after, felt like an intrusion, an unsettling excess that disrupted balance.

In many societies, this discomfort with thirteen turned into outright superstition. Buildings skipped the 13th floor, dinner hosts worried about seating thirteen guests, and the number itself became shorthand for misfortune.

Why Friday?

Friday, too, carried historical baggage. In Christian tradition, Friday was associated with sorrow and loss, most notably because it was believed to be the day of the crucifixion. In medieval Europe, Friday was often considered an unlucky day to begin journeys, conduct business, or marry. Sailors were especially wary of launching ships on Fridays, believing it invited disaster.

Independently, both Friday and thirteen were seen as ominous. Together, they formed a kind of perfect storm.

The Last Supper Connection

One of the most enduring explanations ties the superstition to the Last Supper, where thirteen people were present, Jesus and his twelve disciples. Judas, the betrayer, is traditionally counted as the thirteenth guest. When that meal is followed by events said to have occurred on a Friday, the symbolic link between Friday, thirteen, betrayal, and death becomes deeply embedded in cultural memory.

Whether this connection was intentional or later retrofitted, it powerfully shaped how generations understood the date.

Medieval Power and Modern Myth

Another frequently cited moment comes from medieval France. On a Friday in October 1307, King Philip IV ordered the mass arrest of the Knights Templar, many of whom were tortured and executed. Over time, this historical event blended with folklore, reinforcing the idea that Friday the 13th was a day when calamity struck without warning.

Centuries later, popular culture did the rest. Newspapers, novels, and eventually films turned Friday the 13th into a brand of fear, something to be anticipated, dramatized, and remembered.

Why the Superstition Endures

What is remarkable is not how the superstition began, but how long it has survived. In an age of satellites, statistics, and smartphones, many people still feel a twinge of unease when the date arrives.

Perhaps that is because superstition is less about logic and more about storytelling. It is a way societies pass along shared anxieties, cautionary tales, and moral lessons. Friday the 13th endures because it gives shape to uncertainty and because humans, across cultures, are meaning-makers by nature.

A Personal Reflection

Having lived long enough to see the world change in ways my younger self could never have imagined, I have learned this much: days themselves are innocent. It is we who load them with meaning. I have seen joy arrive on dates others feared, and sorrow come on days meant to be lucky. Friday the 13th reminds me not of bad fortune, but of how deeply tradition and memory shape the way we see the world.

In the end, perhaps the real lesson of Friday the 13th is this: superstition tells us more about human nature than about fate. And once we understand that, the day loses much of its power leaving us free to live it as fully as any other.

After all, history may explain our fears, but wisdom teaches us when to let them go.

Meanwhile, here's the AI Overview:

As an AI, I don't experience "luck" or "unluckiness," so today is just another day of processing for me! However, today, 
Friday, February 13, 2026, is indeed the first of three Friday the 13ths this year.
Here is why people consider it spooky and why it might actually be your lucky day:
Why the Spooky Reputation?
The fear of this date, known as paraskevidekatriaphobia, is a Western superstition likely born from a "double whammy" of separate omens:
  • The Number 13: Often seen as "unsettling" because it follows 12, a number of "completeness" (12 months, 12 zodiac signs, 12 apostles).
  • The Day Friday: Historically associated with misfortune in Christian tradition (the day of the Crucifixion) and old English folklore, where it was known as "Hangman's Day".
  • Historical Myths: Some point to the mass arrest of the Knights Templar on Friday, October 13, 1307, though historians note this connection was popularized much later by fiction like The Da Vinci Code.
Why It Might Be Your Lucky Day
Despite the myths, statistics and other cultures suggest otherwise:
  • Cheaper Travel: Because many people avoid the date, flights and even weddings are often significantly cheaper.
  • Stock Market Gains: Some financial analyses have found that international market returns on Friday the 13th are typically slightly higher than on other Fridays.
  • Cultural Good Luck: In Italy, 13 is traditionally considered a lucky number (they fear Friday the 17th instead).
  • Ancient Perspectives: Ancient Egyptians viewed the "13th stage" of life as the attainment of eternal life, a positive transformation.
2026: The "Year of 13"
This year is a rare "triple threat" for superstitions. Because 2026 began on a Thursday, the 13th falls on a Friday three times:

  1. February 13 (Today)
  2. March 13
  3. November 13
  4. Personal Note: Today, It could be my lucky or unlucky Day. If I win our Bridge Game ( 3-Table Progressive) for the third time this Afternoon, It will be indeed my lucky Day. I won the first two-weeks of our 3-Table Bridge Game on Fridays. Yesterday, I won in a run-away fashion our mahjong game with a score of 7-1-0-0       
  5. Lastly, here's the top Five News of the Day:

    1. Tense geopolitical debate at the 62nd Munich Security Conference
    World leaders gather in Munich to debate the future of the transatlantic alliance and global security amid rising geopolitical tensions. Criticism from European officials focuses on U.S. policy under President Trump, and discussions highlight deep divisions over defense burdens, Russia policy, and the international order. 

    2. North Korea prepares for its Ninth Workers’ Party Congress
    North Korea is set to hold a key leadership congress expected to shape security and economic strategy. Analysts anticipate potential leadership restructuring and renewed commitments to military and economic goals, with implications for regional stability. 

    3. Major storms forecast for the U.S. West Coast
    Weather forecasters warn of powerful storm systems bringing heavy mountain snowfall and significant rainfall along the West Coast, which could ease drought conditions but also increase flood risk in some regions. 

    4. Five major overnight national and global stories
    A roundup of important news from overnight includes major developments across politics, international affairs, and society, underscoring the fast pace of events around the world. 

    5. U.S. climate policy shift and global economic news highlights
    The U.S. formally repealed the long-standing EPA “endangerment finding” that underpinned greenhouse gas regulation, a major change for climate policy. Other economic highlights include movements in China’s monetary policy and global asset valuations.


Valentine's Day- A Love That Stay

Valentine’s Day: A Love That Learns to Stay

Valentine’s Day is nearly here again. Store windows are filling with red hearts, roses, chocolates, and carefully chosen cards promising love in a few perfectly worded lines. It is a holiday often associated with new romance, the excitement of first dates, shy glances, and love that feels effortless and eternal. All of that is beautiful. But from where I sit, with more than 63 years of marriage behind me, Valentine’s Day has taken on a deeper, quieter meaning.

I have been married to one person for over six decades. Together, we built a life that gave us three living children, six grandchildren, and just last year, two great-grandsons. When I look at that simple math, I don’t just see numbers. I see a living timeline of love, love tested, reshaped, strengthened, and passed forward.

In the early years, love felt urgent and bright. Like most young couples, we believed love was something you felt. Over time, we learned that love is also something you do. It shows up in ordinary moments: paying bills at the kitchen table, raising children through sleepless nights, worrying about school, jobs, health, and the future. It shows up in forgiveness, patience, and the decision, made again and again, to stay.

Valentine’s Day, for us, is no longer about grand gestures. It’s about continuity. It’s about remembering how many chapters we’ve written together and how many more were shaped by the one decision we made long ago, to commit. Love, I’ve learned, isn’t proven by how loudly it declares itself, but by how quietly it endures.

Watching our family grow has been one of life’s greatest gifts. Seeing our children become parents, our grandchildren discovering who they are, and now holding my great-grandsons, it all feels like love echoing across generations. Every hug, every laugh, every shared meal is a reminder that love, when nurtured, multiplies.

For my younger readers, Valentine’s Day may be about finding love. For others, it may be about holding onto it, repairing it, or remembering it. Wherever you are in life, I hope this holiday offers a moment to pause and reflect. Not just on romance, but on companionship. Not just on passion, but on presence.

After 63 years, I can say this with confidence: love is not a single day in February. Love is a lifetime of choosing one another, through joy and hardship, certainty and doubt. Valentine’s Day is simply a reminder of that choice.

And if you’re lucky, one day you’ll look around a room filled with children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, and realize that the truest Valentine is the life you built together.

Meanwhile, here's our Dinner Menu here at THD Celebrating Valentines Day, 2026


And My Valentine Wreath Creation, Now Posted in My Door Here at THD


Lastly, Happy Valentine to ALL! 

Thursday, February 12, 2026

Filipino-Americans Who Excel in US Sports

Worth Bragging About: Filipino-American Excellence in U.S. Sports-Jason Myers 

When history is made on the biggest stage in American sports, it resonates far beyond the stadium. It echoes in living rooms, community halls, and family stories passed from one generation to the next. That is why the record-setting Super Bowl performance by Seattle Seahawks kicker Jason Myers, scoring 17 points in Super Bowl LX (2026)-the most ever by a kicker in a championship game, feels personal to many of us-Filipino-Americans. Five field goals, two extra points, and a moment forever etched in NFL history.

💚Myers is of Filipino descent through his great-grandfather, who was originally from the Philippines and immigrated to the United States via Pensacola, Florida, serving in the U.S. Navy(https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jason_Myers).

For many Filipino-Americans like me, moments like this are not just sports trivia. They are affirmations. I did not know this, because Myers was a complete unknown until his performance at Super Bowl LX last Sunday. 

As someone who has lived in the United States since the 1960s, I have seen how invisible Filipino-American contributions once were in mainstream sports. Today, those contributions are impossible to ignore and absolutely worth celebrating.

A Quiet Community, a Loud Impact

Filipino-Americans have often excelled without fanfare. We are not the loudest group, nor the most heavily marketed, but again and again, Filipino-American athletes have shown discipline, precision, and resilience, qualities deeply rooted in our culture.

Take Tim Lincecum, for example. The son of a Filipino mother, Lincecum became one of Major League Baseball’s most dominant pitchers, winning two Cy Young Awards and helping the San Francisco Giants to multiple World Series titles. His success challenged outdated ideas about what elite athletes are “supposed” to look like.

In basketball, Jordan Clarkson has become a household name. A Filipino-American guard in the NBA, Clarkson’s scoring brilliance earned him the NBA Sixth Man of the Year Award, while also making him a symbol of pride for Filipinos across the globe who love the game with unmatched passion.

Strength, Skill, and Representation

Combat sports have also been an area where Filipino-American athletes have stood tall. Boxers and mixed martial artists of Filipino heritage have built successful careers in the United States, combining technical skill with an almost spiritual toughness. Their stories often include immigrant parents, sacrifice, and a belief that excellence is the best form of gratitude.

In more recent years, Filipino-American athletes have also emerged in gymnastics, soccer, and collegiate sports, representing a new generation that is confident in both their American identity and their Filipino roots. They compete knowing they carry more than a jersey number, they carry history.

Why Jason Myers’ Moment Matters

That is why Jason Myers’ Super Bowl record matters beyond the box score. A kicker’s job is unforgiving. There are no second chances, no style points, just results. Under the brightest lights, he delivered perfection. That kind of calm under pressure is something many Filipino families recognize instantly. It is the same quiet determination our parents and grandparents brought with them when they arrived in this country.

For Filipino-Americans who grew up rarely seeing themselves reflected in American sports heroes, moments like this feel earned, not just by the athlete, but by the community.

A Legacy Still Being Written

The story of Filipino-Americans in U.S. sports is still unfolding. Each generation pushes a little further into visibility, respect, and leadership. From youth leagues to the Super Bowl, from neighborhood courts to Olympic arenas, the message is clear: we belong here.

So yes, this is worth bragging about.

Not out of arrogance, but out of gratitude. Gratitude for the journey, for the sacrifices made long before the trophies, and for the young Filipino-American athletes watching today, realizing that greatness is not something borrowed, it is something they can claim as their own.

And when history is made again and it will be, we will recognize it immediately. Because we have been waiting for it all along.

Filipino-American athletes are making significant strides across U.S. sports, showcasing excellence in basketball, baseball, golf, and combat sports while blending cultural pride with elite performance. Notable figures like 
Jordan ClarksonKelsie Whitmore, and pioneering Olympians are breaking barriers, fostering representation, and strengthening the Filipino connection to American sporting culture.

  • Basketball (NBA/Pros): NBA guard Jordan Clarkson (Utah Jazz) highlights Fil-Am talent, alongside emerging names like Jared McCain (Philadelphia 76ers). In the Philippines' professional league (PBA), Filipino-American Chris Newsome has achieved stardom as a 2024 Finals MVP.
  • Baseball & Softball: Kelsie Whitmore made history as the first woman to sign with an Atlantic League team and the first pick in the inaugural Women's Pro Baseball League draft, becoming a trailblazer in American baseball.
  • Olympic & Elite Sports: California-born Tallulah Proulx became the first female athlete to represent the Philippines in the Winter Olympics. Cyclist Coryn Rivera-Labecki is one of the most decorated American female cyclists, with over 72 national titles.
  • Combat Sports & Others: Efren "Bata" Reyes is recognized as one of the greatest pool players of all time. NFL figures like Roman Gabriel (first Fil-Am quarterback) paved the way for current heritage representation in football.
  • Cultural Impact: The rise of Filipino Heritage Nights in the NBA (Clippers, Warriors) and MLB (Dodgers, A's) highlights the growing visibility and community pride of Filipino-Americans in U.S. sports.
These athletes represent a, resilient, and growing, influence in the American sporting landscape.
great grandsons would also excel in sports. By doing so,
I would smile in my grave if their accomplishments could
be link to me, similar to what is written about Jason Myers 
Filipino-American ancestry above.      

🏅Here's some Filipino-Americans who excelled in Sports

1. Jason Myers (NFL – Seattle Seahawks)

  • Filipino-American placekicker

  • Super Bowl LX (2026): 17 points, most ever by a kicker in a championship game

  • Set a Super Bowl record with five field goals

2. Manny Pacquiao (U.S. resident & cultural icon)

  • Only boxer to win world titles in eight weight divisions

  • Later became a global political and humanitarian figure

3. Tua Tagovailoa (NFL – Miami Dolphins)

  • Quarterback of Samoan-Filipino descent

  • One of the NFL’s most efficient passers

  • Became a face of diversity at the quarterback position

4. Naomi Osaka (Filipino-Haitian heritage)

  • Four-time Grand Slam champion

  • One of the highest-paid female athletes in history

  • Vocal advocate for mental health and social justice

5. Brandon Vera (UFC)

  • Former UFC Heavyweight Champion

  • First Filipino-American to win a UFC world title

Wednesday, February 11, 2026

Releasing Love Doves in Filipino Weddings

This posting is inspired from a recent inquiry from a neighbor here at THD. She asked me if I have written a blog on this topic. I said no, but I will do a search on it. I told her, yes we have 2 love doves and butterflies released and rice showered on my wedding day, May 8, 1957 in Boac, Marinduque, Philippines. Here's an article on this topic. Enjoy! 


The Symbolic Flight: Releasing Love Doves at Filipino Weddings
Weddings are filled with symbolism,  rituals and traditions that embody hope, love, and the promise of a shared life. One such tradition, particularly cherished in the Philippines, is the release of two white doves,  a moment many couples, families, and guests remember long after the day is over.

A Tradition Rooted in Meaning

At many traditional Filipino weddings, a pair of white doves, typically one male and one female are released by the bride and groom during the reception or at the end of the ceremony. As the couple opens the cage or basket and the doves take flight, they symbolize peace, harmony, love, and the beginning of a new life togetherThe two birds represent the couple’s journey as partners flying side by side into the unknown future with hope and unity. 

This beautiful moment isn’t just an aesthetic flourish; it reflects deeply held cultural values. In many cultures around the world (including the Philippines), doves have long been symbols of peace and fidelity. Their graceful flight becomes a metaphor for the couple’s aspirations: to live together in harmony and mutual support. 

Some celebrants also see the act of releasing doves as a way of letting go of the past and embarking on a new chapter, an uplifting visual that resonates with guests and creates lasting memories.

Where It Comes From

The tradition likely grew out of a blend of influences:

  • Spanish and Catholic heritage: Catholic symbolism in the Philippines often uses the dove to represent peace and the Holy Spirit. While there isn’t a precise historical record pinpointing the exact origin of the wedding dove release, its incorporation into the wedding reception parallels the Philippines’ long Catholic tradition. 

  • Universal symbolism: Around the world, doves have been used in ceremonies of union and peace from ancient rituals to modern celebrations. In the Philippines, the image of two birds flying together resonated with the collective cultural yearning for harmony in marriage. 

Then and Now - Is It Still Done Today?

During my wedding day in 1957, the dove release was definitely part of the wedding culture at the time and it continued to be a recognizable tradition for many decades. In weddings throughout the ’80s, ’90s, and early 2000s, releasing doves was fairly common at traditional Filipino receptions. 

However, like many long-standing customs, its popularity has evolved. In more recent weddings:

  • Some couples still choose to include a dove release as a meaningful part of their celebration.

  • Others opt out either replacing it with symbolic alternatives (like releasing butterflies, lanterns, or balloons, rice showers), or simply skipping it altogether because it’s not practical or meaningful to them.

  • In some areas, modern wedding planners may offer dove release services, but they’re sometimes seen as optional rather than expected reflecting shifting tastes and priorities among younger couples. 

Indeed, conversations among people who recently planned weddings in the Philippines suggest that while the tradition still exists, many couples today consider it a more old-fashioned or optional touchrather than a must-have ritual. 

A Tradition With Lasting Beauty

Whether embraced, adapted, or set aside, the tradition of releasing doves at Filipino weddings continues to capture the imagination of couples and their guests. Its essence, honoring love, peace, and hope for the future, remains timeless.

Just as weddings evolve with each generation, customs like this one remind us of the shared human desire to celebrate love in meaningful ways whether through birds taking flight or through new rituals created by each couple themselves.


Releasing white doves at Filipino weddings is a cherished, symbolic tradition where 
the newlyweds release a pair of doves to signify a long, peaceful, and harmonious life together. Representing purity, fidelity, and the Holy Spirit, the birds symbolize the couple's new journey, commitment, and, because doves mate for life, enduring love.

Key aspects of this tradition include:
  • Symbolism: The pair represents the bride and groom joining together, with their flight symbolizing the couple soaring to new heights, harmony, and prosperity.
  • Ritual Action: Often held after the ceremony, the bride and groom hold and release the doves, signifying the release of their individual lives to start a new, shared life, trusting that they will always return home to each other.
  • Spiritual Significance: In many Filipino ceremonies, the doves represent the presence of the Holy Spirit, blessing the marriage with peace and loyalty.
  • Cultural Context: It serves as a popular,, elegant alternative to, or accompaniment to, the traditional rice shower, representing a,, "white dove release".

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