Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands
View of Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands-Click on photo to link to Chateau Du Mer

WELCOME TO MY SITE AND HAVE A GOOD DAY

If this is your first time in this site, welcome. It has been my dream that my province, Marinduque, Philippines becomes a world tourist destination not only during Easter Week but also whole year round. You can help me achieve my dream by telling your friends about this site. The photo above is your own private beach at The Chateau Du Mer Beach Resort. The sand is not as white as Boracay, but it is only a few steps from your front yard and away from the mayhem and crowds of Boracay. I have posted some of my favorite Filipino and American dishes and recipes on this site also. Some of the photos and videos on this site, I do not own. However, I have no intention on infringement of your copyrights. Cheers!

Saturday, November 18, 2023

Are You A Good Bridge Player?


I started playing Party Bridge again here at THD after a hiatus of several years. In my younger years, I play duplicate or competitive bridge and accumulated more than 100 junior master points. After 2 years of playing duplicate bridge, I realize that the game instead of relaxing me give me the opposite feeling since after a duplicate game I have a hard time sleeping. So I gave it up completely only playing the game on line with the robot from time to time(BBO). 

So what are the skills that you need to be a good bridge player? Here's what I learned from my readings:
  
"All the factors that contribute to make great champions in other sports are important in winning at bridge: concentration, accuracy, technique, stamina, resilience, the ability to cope with time pressure, staying alert, remaining calm, willingness to learn and improve - but also a sense of fun, and an ability to relax. "

Bridge is a sport based on skill, not luck.  Unlike other activities involving cards, it is only good play, and not good cards, which means you will win.
The game of bridge is as much about personal character as about technical skills: handling oneself at the table and knowing how to deal with others. Equanimity, flexibility, focus, respect, and sense of humor win the game.
Here's an article that is a must read if you want to be good bridge Player.
Attributes of Good Bridge Players (or Good Attributes of Bridge Players?)

There are a few characteristics or attributes that seem to be inherent in most good bridge players. Some of the following traits may not be readily apparent in those bridge players you admire, but if you think about it for awhile you’ll see that most are usually present.

Perhaps the first would be the ability to concentrate. Bridge requires total attention at all times (especially as you get older and have more problems with those “senior moments”). The need to concentrate and to focus on the given hand is ever- present. First you need to think about your hand, then the bidding, then the play and/or defense. If your mind wanders away to something else, it’s an effort to keep coming back to exactly where you were before you left. And needless to say, mind wandering takes up valuable time.

Another trait is that of anger management. It’s a fact that sometimes things will go awry and you may not be in control to stop them. Duplicate bridge can get rather intense; thus, this trait may well have to be developed. An even temperament is obviously best but there are those who have learned to control their fits of anger so that they don’t interfere with their ability to play this game. Once a hand is over, let it go.....whether you got the best score or the worst score. It matters not.....that hand is over.

Bridge is a game of logic. It is not a game of rote.....in fact far from it. It requires the use of logic in order to figure out the hands and what’s going on in the play and defense. And to play it well it requires the ability to visualize partner’s and opponents’ hands.....as well as the ability to count!!

Another important thing is awareness of the fact that this is a partnership endeavor; the need for communications with your partner in both bidding and card play is a priority item. Such things as (1) taking liberties with the vulnerability, (2) making silly and often stupid bids before partner has had a say in the auction, (3) frequent overbidding along with chronic underplaying, and (4) random and ill-conceived doubles are not in the best interest of establishing partnership confidence.

Duplicate bridge players should make every effort to know basic bridge principles in addition to having some knowledge of the Laws of Duplicate Bridge and the Alert Procedure. While one can deviate from accepted bridge principles, the Laws must be followed at all times. Thus the Laws are not to be confused with rules.

Such rules as “second hand low”, “third hand high” and “cover an honor with an honor are really guidelines and, as such, are often broken,

Last but certainly not least is the necessity of having a positive attitude. I can almost guarantee that if you don’t believe things are going to work out well, they won’t. However, you do have my permission to scream at anyone who says: “Bridge is only a game.”

Good luck. (That’s important too.) ©Marilyn Hemenway February 2008

My Quote of the DayThe real test of a bridge player isn't in keeping out of trouble, but in escaping once he's in. Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand. It's not enough to win the tricks that belong to you. 

The reference of Bidding Systems Used all over the World is at bottom of this page.

The most common conventions in bridge are Blackwood, which asks for and gives information about the number of aces and kings held, Staymaconvention, used to discover a 4-4 fit in a major suit following an opening no trump bid, Jacoby transfers, used to find a 5-3 fit in a major suit, and strong two clubs. 
Other not popular convention is the Gerber. asking for Aces after the NT bid. 💥Gerber is used to ask for Aces and Kings over No Trump bids in order to keep 4NT as a "quantitative" bid.
💥GÉ™rbÉ™r- : a bidding method in contract bridge that is based on the Blackwood convention and that uses a bid of four clubs instead of four no-trump as the asking bid, with responses of four diamonds to show no ace, four hearts one ace, four spades two aces, four no-trump three aces, and five clubs four aces.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bidding_system

Personal Note: I could see in the Future an Ad on THD:    The Haven for Active Seniors Who Love to Play Bridge because:  There is a Bridge Game Five Days a Week here at THD today!!!!

Monday,Thursday (Beginners) and Friday coordinated by Lee Cruise. There are 2 tables on the Monday and Friday Games. 

Tuesday- coordinated by Linda Botton

Wednesday- coordinated by Phil Paris.

There is a new group of bridge players at the Fireside Lounge that started playing the other day also on Wednesday Afternoon. I believe it is coordinated by Linda Botton, but I am not sure.

More Power to All Contract Party Bridge Players at All Levels of Expertise here at THD.     
 


Friday, November 17, 2023

Wine Tasting Here at THD Yesterday Afternoon


Yesterday Afternoon Wine Tasting Activity was indeed an enjoyable event. I am not a wine connoisseur, but I learned a lot about wine.  The event was sponsored by Buon Vino of Walnut Creek. 


There were 3 wines featured as follows:

2022 California Chardonnay- A Hint of Oak and Butter on the Bouquet, with Green Apple and Cream on the Palate ( $23.99).

2022 Sonoma Coast Rose of Pinot Noir- Notes of strawberry on the rose, with a crisp, dry palate ( $26.99)  and

2021 Coast Malbec- Medium body and acidity, finish with Black cherry and pepper on the Palate ( S28.99).   

My Favorite is the Rose of Pinot Noir. My other favorite wine not tasted was Johannesburg Riesling.

Here are some photos from the Event ( Photo Credit-Karen Koff ):







Kudos again to Karen K, THD Activity Guru for another enjoyable event here at THD.  
 
After the wine tasting I had dinner with Uma Dobia💥 ( Dean Elias daughter), Dean and Mary Fenelon.
Uma is visiting her Dad on her way to another fund raising concert in Santa Cruz this Sunday. 

Thursday, November 16, 2023

Some Asian Americans Have Hidden Part of their Heritage at Some Point in their Lives

One-in-five Asian American adults say they have hidden a part of their heritage – cultural customs, food, clothing or religious practices – from non-Asians at some point in their lives. Fear of ridicule and a desire to fit in are common reasons they give for doing this, according to a Pew Research Center survey of Asian adults in the United States conducted from July 2022 to January 2023.

  • Korean Americans are more likely than some other Asian origin groups to say they have hidden part of their heritage. One-in-four Korean adults (25%) say they have done this, compared with smaller shares of Chinese (19%), Vietnamese (18%), Filipino (16%) and Japanese (14%) adults.
  • Asian Americans ages 18 to 29 are about twice as likely as older Asian adults to have hidden their culture. About 39% of Asian adults under 30 have hidden their culture, food, religion or clothing from non-Asians. About one-in-five Asians ages 30 to 49 (21%) have done this, as have 12% of Asians 50 to 64 and 5% of those 65 and older.
  • Asian adults who are Democrats or lean Democratic are much more likely than those who identify with or lean toward the Republican Party to have hidden their identity. Among Asian adults, 29% of Democrats have hidden their culture from others, compared with 9% of Republicans.
  • Asian Americans who primarily speak English are more likely than those who primarily speak the language of their Asian origin country to have hidden part of their heritage. Some 29% of English-dominant Asian adults have hidden their heritage, versus 14% of those who are bilingual and 9% who primarily speak their Asian origin language.

Why some Asian Americans hide their heritage

Asian Americans who said they have hidden part of their heritage also shared why they did so. Some of the most common reasons were a feeling of embarrassment or a lack of understanding from others.

However, different immigrant generations also cited various other reasons for hiding their culture:

  • Many recent Asian immigrants said they have tried to fit into the U.S. and fear that others may judge them negatively for sharing their heritage.
  • U.S.-born Asian Americans with immigrant parents often said they hid their heritage when they were growing up to fit into a predominantly White society. Some in this generation mentioned wanting to avoid reinforcing stereotypes about Asians.
  • Some multiracial Asian Americans and those with more distant immigrant roots (third generation or higher) said they had at times hidden their heritage to pass as White.

For complete details visit:

https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/09/11/among-asian-americans-us-born-children-of-immigrants-are-most-likely-to-have-hidden-part-of-their-heritage/

Personal QuestionAre you an Asian- American? If so have you hidden part of your heritage to Non-Asians at some point in your life? 

For me I have always been proud of my Filipino heritage and have no feeling of inferiority to Caucasians and Other races since birth and until today.   At times, I even feel superior to others because of my education and up- bringing in the Philippines in the 1940's. I have no fear of flaunting my Filipino ancestry. Although I have experienced two episodes of discrimination during my more than six decades of life here in the US because of how I look, I was able to overcome it and achieved a successful career with FDA. I was the First Filipino-American Chemist to achieved a  GS-14 Expertise on Anti-fungal, Anti-Malarial and Anti-Parasitic Drug Products. I was the first Filipino-American Elected to the United States Pharmacopeia Council of Experts serving for two 5-years consecutive terms.     

If you are  an Asian American this PBS documentary film series is must to view.

Asian Americans is a five-hour PBS documentary film series made by ITVSWETA, and the Center for Asian American Media. The series focus on the history of Asian and Asian American people in the United States and first aired on May 11, 2020. It received a Peabody Award in 2021.

The series lead producer was Renee Tajima-Peña who described the series as being about "not about how Asians became American, but how Asians have helped shape America." The series' music was composed by Vivek Maddala. Narration throughout the series was done by Asian American actors Daniel Dae Kim and Tamlyn Tomita. ( From Wikipedia).

Sunday, November 12, 2023

Veteran's Day Celebration Here at THD, Walnut Creek, CA

Veterans Day was celebrated here at THD with patriotic music by Joe Roldan💥 yesterday afternoon at 2PM. The music was an excellent tribute to the veterans residents here at THD as listed in the above photo. Besides the patriotic songs and hymns, Joe sang two songs that keep the audience humming and singing along, The Impossible Dream and Sweet Caroline. It was an afternoon to remember. The talk of Glen Mays was very touching and appropriate for the occasion. Apple Cider and Cookies were served for refreshments and snack, Thank You, THD management and Staff for a memorable afternoon to honor our veterans.     

Moreover, the City of Walnut Creek had also their Annual Veterans Day Ceremony at the Lesher Center for the Arts which is only a few blocks from THD compound earlier in the day. Here's the invitation:( also listed in our THD Event Highlights for November 6 to 12, 2023.

 

Veterans Day Ceremony

Presented by the City of Walnut Creek

Walnut Creek Concert Band 22-23 Veterans Day Ceremony Main Event

We invite you to join our Mayor, City Council, the Walnut Creek Concert Band and your friends and neighbors to the City's Annual Veterans Day ceremony. This event is free to the public.

We invite you to visit the memorial to our Walnut Creek Veterans outside of City Hall before or after the ceremony.

Featuring

 Walnut Creek Concert Band Logo

Veterans Day reminds me of my posting on my late Father as a former Dental Officer for the USAFFE(United States Arm Forces in the Far East) as follows:

https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2019/11/my-father-was-dental-officer-in-usaffe.html

And before you go, some good news

Communities across California will gather this week and through the weekend to celebrate Veterans Day on Nov. 11, honoring those who have served in the U.S. armed forces.

The holiday — first named Armistice Day for when the armistice ending World War I was signed on Nov. 11, 1918 — falls on Saturday this year. But Californians from the northern reaches of the Bay Area down to San Diego have already begun celebrations.

Residents of San Jose kicked off their festivities over the weekend with an event hosted by the Santa Clara County veteran services office that drew hundreds, including veterans from multiple generations. In the Bay Area, a packed schedule of community gatherings is planned for the coming days, including a gala in San Francisco on Thursday, followed by a Veterans Day parade in Petaluma and live music and dancing in Rohnert Park on Saturday. Across San Diego County, there are parades, ceremonies and a film screening planned throughout the weekend ( From the New York Times, California Today). 

Thank You to All Veterans for your service to Our Country. 

Note💥Joe Roldan informed me that his parents were originally from Cebu, Philippines. Joe was born and raised here in the US and recently retired from the US Postal Service. 

Friday, November 10, 2023

My Top Five Most Popular and Widely Read Blogs-An Update

I started blogging in 2008. I started with one blog about Marinduque-my second home in the Philippines. Then I started writing my autobiography. The rest is history.
 
My primary goals for writing is to inform, to entertain and perhaps inspire.  My secondary goal was to earn pocket money thru Adsense. The first year I earned about $100 from Adsense. I decided it was not worth it, so I cancelled it on my second year. 
 
Today, I have been blogging for 15 years. I write on any topics/subjects that comes to my mind, my daily activities, families, tourism, gardening, cooking, Filipino culture, life in the US versus life in the Philippines. I write about senior citizen issues and problems, and the accomplishments of my children and relatives. I also blog to advertise our Beach House-Chateau Du Mer ( currently not in operation) for public use. Most of my clients were from abroad and non-Filipinos.

Currently, 21% of my blog readers are from the US. About 5% from the Philippines. The rest are from 25 countries around the world. 

Recently, I wrote about my life here at the Heritage Downtown(THD), Walnut Creek. This month most of postings are related to Filipino-American activities celebrating Filipino-American History month here un the US.      
 
Based on the comments I have received, I realized that my blogs do indeed inform and sometimes entertain. In a few cases I have inspired readers. Writing blogs keep me busy and sharpen my memory and thus making me feel useful and young.  
 
I have ten blogs but here's the top five, most popular and most commented.

The first column is All Time Views, number of Post and Number of Comments as of today.
 
1. Becoming American-Total Views(993,489),# of Post (2670),# of Comments(304) 
2. The Intellectual Migrants-Views(900,114),# of Post(2478), #of Comments(221)
3. Marinduque Awaits You-Views(782,096), #of Post(2671), # of Comments(203)
4. MRQ My Island Paradise-Views(671,096),#of Post(2519),# of Comments( 121)
5. Chateau Du Mer Beach etc-Views(466,101),#of Post(2577),#of Comments(249)
 
Top Ten Most Popular Posts as of Today:


Wednesday, November 8, 2023

Meal Times Conversations Here at THD-Homelessness and Medical Missions

 Last month, I had the pleasure of joining two ladies for dinner here at THD. Our meal times conversations were stimulating and educational. We discussed the homelessness in Walnut Creek as well as in the State and what Governor Newsom and the mayors of big cities are currently doing to alleviate this problem. Sacramento, my former home have the most number of the homeless compared to other big cities in the State. Here's the latest news from the New York Times and Asian Journal dated September 20, 2023 and October 10, 2023 respectively.

Between 2020 and 2022, the number of homeless people in Sacramento County increased by 68 percent, to 9,278, according to the latest federal data. By comparison, San Diego County’s homeless population increased by 10 percent, and Los Angeles County’s by 2 percent. Sacramento County now has more homeless residents than San Francisco.

“Across the nation, Sacramento was one of the places where homelessness grew the most,” said Marisol Cuellar Mejia, a research fellow at the Public Policy Institute of California, which analyzed the data

https://www.cnn.com/2023/07/11/us/california-homeless-spending/index.html#:~:text=Across%20the%20country%2C%20homelessness%20is,unhoused%20people%20now%20live%20here.

https://asianjournal.com/usa/california/california-takes-action-to-tackle-homelessness-2/

However, the topic that aroused my personal interest was the medical missions in the Philippines. One of my lady dinner -mate informed us that her nephew(MD) had been involved with MEDICAL missions in the Philippines, specifically facial and hare-lip surgeries for the needy in the rural provinces in the Philippines every year. I told the group, I have been personally involved with medical missions in the Philippines in the island of Marinduque- our second home.  

Macrine (RIP) and other Volunteers Help in the Distribution of Free Medicines to the Needy

Allow me to repost some of my previous blogs on our ( Macrine and I) involvement with this humanitarian activity for our former fellow province mates.      

https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2016/06/my-involvement-with-medical-missions-in.html

https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2012/01/my-notes-conducting-and-organizing.html

https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2011/02/my-heart-melted-and-i-cried-again.html

 I volunteered as a Translator for our Non-Tagalog Speaking Doctors. I was also acting as Treasurer during the Medical Mission, while Macrine was the over-all coordinator. 

My Quotes for Today: You Give but Little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give. Kahlil Gibran, 1883-1931, Lebanese Poet, Artist and Mystic

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